Make sure that God uses you!
Nigerians are a highly religious people, but sometimes we need to be reminded that being religious should not translate to being irresponsible.
I have spoken to individuals about the issues they are having with their spouses and some of them have told me that they were praying and trusting God for a resolution. While I am a man of prayer myself, I tell them that praying about it alone is futile.
That is like praying that you will be able to provide for your children but you don’t go find work to do. You would consider that irresponsible; right? It is just as irresponsible to be praying about your spouse’s complaints that you aren’t satisfying him/her in bed without getting some education on the subject.
Sex was God’s idea. He is certainly interested in meeting your spouse’s sexual needs. You better make sure that it is YOU that God uses to meet that need! Think about that for a while.
please is it need 2 pray 2 know d actualy husband/wife dat he or she want 2 marry? B/c some will say ”i would marry a fine girl or d lady dat him/her family reach without asking 4rom god. please enlight me.
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This subject of sex is quite an important one and is not dealt with enough in churches if at all. In a lot of churches this subject is still taboo and hence a lot of Christians will encounter problems in their marriage and do not know how to deal with it. It is therefore good to see that you are engaged in this kind of work. I wrote an article on “Problems in your Marriage” which can be viewed here. Perhaps some of your posters may find it useful.
http://spiritofdiscernment.wordpress.com/2010/02/02/problems-in-your-marriage/
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